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Friday, April 5, 2019

Life Gets Messy

It’s been awhile....I hope you all still remember who we are!!
The Bellingrath Home
I went back to take a look at where we left off and it appears Mike had just gotten a good heart health report.  It was a scary time and we are so thankful that God led us to a great cardiologist and he was able to stabilize Mike’s blood pressure that apparently was causing the issues with mitral valve prolapse.   We were all set to begin traveling and Mike had a physical therapy session....remember his ruptured disc?  During that visit the therapist must have done something and all of a sudden Mike’s cervical stenosis became horrible to bear!!  The pain is immense....no sleeping comfortably, strength in both arms has diminished and he can’t look up.  We saw a neurosurgeon in Mobile, Alabama at the Coastal Neurological Institute.  He evaluated, including a current MRI to compare to the one done two years ago and immediately said the cervical stenosis was worse and he would need surgery.  So, if it’s not one thing it’s twenty!!  But we are not discouraged because he can get better with surgery!!
There is an 85% recovery rate...not bad!!




I’m not going to say we haven’t thought long and hard about what we are doing!!  Do we get a bigger rig?  Do we get a condo/townhouse?   Do we just stop full-timing/RVing?  What to do??  The neurosurgeon was totally in favor of travel, RVing, walking, hiking anything to stay active!!!              



So we actually chose all but stopping full-timing/RVing.  We actually bought a fifth wheel....a very nice one!!  We were going to park it on a lot/site at Rainbow Plantation and keep the Oliver for travel.  Sounded like a good plan and then along came the dead heat of summer in the Deep South.  We couldn’t keep that rig cool for anything...we brought the Oliver around to the side of the fifth wheel and turned on it’s AC and we stayed inside of it to keep cool.  We have an older Shih Tzu that was really hot and having difficulty inside the fifth wheel..  Then a few other things happened structurally (it was a new rig) and when the slide came in and  ripped off half the slide trim inside, a drawer and the trim under the refrigerator we said...enough!!  Ollie may be small but we never had any of these issues.             


Then we decided to try leasing a townhouse until after Mike’s surgery!!  Once again, this sounded like a great idea!!  The townhouse is brand new and very nice!! Located in a gated area and I even have my own screen porch.  All that was great until they decided to build more townhouses behind us!!  We get our wake up call very early every week day morning with huge equipment doing whatever huge bulldozers do....dig, clear, smooth out and then dig again.  Our walls actually shook and pictures moved.  Needless to say there is no peace and quiet in the townhouse so forget the nice screen porch ambience....you can’t sit out there and enjoy!!      




We found ourselves missing the Ollie more and more!!  Each time we thought we might  sell the Oliver neither of us could do it!!  Do we have a weakness here??    It’s called loving the lifestyle along with its freedom to go whenever or wherever you want, the ability to meet amazing people and visit those we’ve already met.  The peace and quiet and the simplicity of it all.  The idea that life happens no matter where you are or what you’re living in.  It happens!!   And last but not least....we love the Oliver and we are just not ready to give her up yet!!  There seems to be some miles left to experience with us and Ollie so we are going to stay with it...at least for a while longer!!  Maybe another year, maybe two, maybe...never mind you get the point!!  Travel is good for the soul!!        



Since we have missed blogging for awhile I’ll leave you with one of our last outings in Mobile, Alabama.  Bellingrath Gardens!!  It is actually in a city called Theodore, Alabama which is just southwest of Mobile by about maybe 15 miles.  It is a beautiful place and we look forward to visiting in different seasons to see what is blooming!!  Hope you enjoy!!! 








14 comments:

  1. Sorry to hear about all the setbacks. Prayers continue.

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  2. So nice to hear from and hope is going better now, so frustrating trying to change your lifestyle when you love then one you are enjoying. Glad your are keeping Ollie.

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  3. I know that you know the God will lead you to where you need to be. But some times that road is windy, bumpy and rough. But He has you covered.

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  4. Oh my, Gerri. What trials you are going through! Prayers for Mike, as well as you, that things will improve in many ways, and you can get back to doing what you both love.

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  5. I completely understand where you are at. This has been a very trying year for us also with all of Jim's health issues. I love our destination trailer that we have on our lot but we are not yet ready to give up our little Bungalow. There will be no traveling for us this summer but we're hoping next year will be different. It really is hard to give up this lifestyle that we love so much.

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  6. I was wondering where you were. Glad you are listening to your inner self and knowing what is right for you. Speedy recovery.

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  7. Sending good thoughts. I hope you reported that physical therapists to someone..I'd hate to think of him messing up other people too! I love the story about how you keep coming back to the Oliver. It definitely is good at staying cool. though for me, it's not nearly as good at staying warm enough in cold temps.

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  8. Gerri, thanks so much for this update. You have definitely NOT been forgotten. I'm so sorry for what you've been going through, especially the deterioration in Mike's condition. But the surgery sounds hopeful; and, without that setback, you would probably never have tried the surgery. Praying for full healing and recovery and life on the road in your Oliver.

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  9. Sounds like life had thrown you a few curve balls, but I know you can rely on the strength of the Lord as you move forward. Beautiful pictures in this post.

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  10. While some of us may have had "speed bumps" of late, you Two have been climbing over the "Himalayan Mountains"...and have kept a positive attitude. Prayers for you and Mike...keep that Ollie as its the light at the end of the tunnel...Take care and payers for a recovery and return to magnificent sunrise and sunsets in one of those grand places you seem to find. Horst sends

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  11. Oh my, you two have definitely had some challenges. You have great attitudes even in difficult times and that will carry you through. Here's hoping that you'll be back in your beloved Oliver making new travel memories soon.

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  12. Wooo---I knew some of this but not all. I am glad to hear that Mike will be able to get the surgery he needs. The future sounds bright for him... God is SO good.

    I knew about the townhome --but didn't know about all of the nearby construction.. GADS!

    I know how much you love the Oliver --so I hope that you both will get to do more RVing --after Mike's surgery....

    What will happen to the other RV? Sounds like it was not a good deal --since you cannot live in Southern Alabama without good AC's.....

    You both continue to be in our prayers.... I do hope that we'll meet each other sometime.

    God's Blessings to you BOTH.
    Hugs,
    Betsy

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  13. Gerri, I am so sad to hear of Mike's health problems. Praying for you both (and your doggie). Glad to hear that the Ollie is still so special to you. Hope you can get out in it soon. And thanks for the lovely photos! They brighten my day.

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  14. Yikes:( Hope things look up quickly, that sure is all a lot to handle!

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